守护

每一人都有自己想要守护的人或事物。
简单来说，人要守护的有亲情，爱情，国家，友情等等。
可是，天下可没白吃的午餐，
因为守护是要付出代价。
至于付出的代价是否值得，就见仁见智。
守护是一种在暗地里静悄悄地保护自己非常重视的人事物，
换句话说，只求付出，不求回报。

 国家

在"Battleship"的电影里，
有着一位退休军人不惜在一场战争中牺牲了自己的一双腿。
他感到非常沮丧，还甚至放弃了为生命继续奋斗的意志力。
从那时开始，他被逼装上了一双义肢后，
要面对世人对他的奇异眼光与嘲笑，
他变得越来越暴躁，物理治疗师从此不断换了一个又一个，
都被他那暴躁与自甘堕落的行为给气走。
不久，他遇上了新的一位女物理治疗师，
展开了一段奇妙的人类对抗外星人攻打的经历。
他重新找回了为奋斗的意志力与满足感，
利用曾被自己看不起的义肢去抗斗到底，
而他这次要守护的不只是国家，而是全世界的人类。

启发：
有的人会因为遇到一些人生挫折，而自暴自弃，
或试着去逃避所发生的问题，
这都是人之常情，因为缺乏了面对的勇气。

有的甚至选择自行了解性命，
以为死了就是唯一解决的最好方法，
也把自己所想要守护的人一起带去不归路。
虽知他们是无辜，
但为了避免自己会对他们有所顾虑和不舍，
就把它当成了能自私的理由。


在这世上，还有更多人的遭遇比自己更惨，
都不惜一些努力地继续活下去。
有的人甚至不够时间去完成自己的人生目标，
就被死神召唤去了，而留下了无法被磨灭的遗憾。

 守护本是一种爱的行为，却不能因个人的自私而演变成了后悔。

Inspiration

I have been long time didn't visit my own blog already.
 However, i will always like to go visit your blog.
After i looked through your all blog post, it just gave me some inspiration.

I keep thinking something when i was looking through your blog.
At that moment, my mind is filling by thoughts and feelings.

1st:  I know that myself don't have an important place in your heart at all. Is
       just like in my expectation, cause i didn't feel sad, but just disappointed.

2nd: I really miss my secondary school life, although some people will think i
       was very immature and naive. But anyway, that is an important process
       in my life.My secondary school life really made me experienced a lot of
       amazing things and some special feelings that cant be explained or
       described by anyone, but you must feel it by yourself, cause is the only
       way u will understand what is it.

3rd: I admit that myself had been wasting a lot of precious time in doing  
       some meaningless things. I didn't spend the time wisely when
       i was together with my friends. It's such a pity that I can't make
       the time come back.

4th:  While the time is passing through, i have learn to accept the facts.
        Actually recently i only realize that my mom had taught me to face
        the consequences and accept whatever the things had happened.
        If you can't do anything to fix or correct it, the best way is learn
        to accept it. Bear the consequences is uneasy like in the movie, cause
        it is needed courage although just say a word "sorry". Sometimes,
        sorry is useless also, cause "sorry not cure". Accept the facts also
        can be in another way round, means just forget about it to let go
        and keep telling to yourself " the things that not belongs to
        yours, you try so hard to get it, it will also be no changes".

I don't like to have regret in my growing process, especially in making decision.
I always believe that God had already set up all the path way that you need to walk in your life,
and everyone has their different path ways, that's why everyone got their different life experiences.
Whatever decision that you had made, u will find out that you will gain and lose something through the decision in the same time which is called a learning process in your life.